WAW Said She's Done, III Realization setting in

[OneDay]

Thank you everyone, I need all the support I can get right now.

makingmagic, your so right. I am being her puppet and she knows it. There are other I should be standing up for that I haven't mentioned. I need to do it, and I need to do it TONIGHT.

There are ways to stand your ground and not be argumentative or confrontational.

This is what Im worried about. I know that I will come off as confrontational. I will try my hardest to be calm, but she is the master at turning things around on me and before I know it, Im lost and confused.

Here's how I would start this conversation. What do guys think.
W, Do you have minute? I need to talk to you.
I wanted to let you know that I will no longer rotate the sleeping arrangements with you and that I will be sleeping in the bed from now on.

At this point she will be fuming and telling my how awful Im am.

I then come back with, Im sorry you feel that way, but you've made it perfectly clear where you stand in this relationship and if you dont like you can leave?

I dont know. Is that confrontational?