One other quick question - it concerns WAPs best friend...he has always been a very close friend of mine too. I need some advice (not that I can necessarily change anything at this stage). When I found out about OW it was on the heels of a conversation that I had with WAPs bf who was CONVINCED that WAP was not having an affair/there was no OW. Convinced not only because he believed this of him generally but also because he had asked WAP straight out whether there was anyone else (Jan 10~) and WAP emphatically denied it. In fact WAP lied to his bf and said that the weekend he was actually with OW he was helping his son install a kitchen 4 hours away in our home town. So WAPs bf was at pains to convince me that WAPs stories were believable. I am not usually like this (and i may regret it I think) but when I found out about OW I text WAPs bf and told him what I knew. I was so cross that he had lied to BOTH OF US.. I would usually not involve friends in this way....but the deceit just made me so cross. I haven't heard from WAPs bf AT ALL (I did say in my text that I did not expect to necessarily get a response)... I now feel silly - My only blip re outward anger/upset so far - but I feel like I have let myself down x
