so we talked a little tonight. He had a bad day so he stop off at a friends place on way home. We have learnt that him stressed plus kids is nowhere near a good mix. I'd rather have him cool off first before coming home. When he came home he just wanted to talk about his bad day. Every little thing. It was nice and him asking my opinions about what he should do. I know he has always respected my opinion and no doubt he will put it to good use as my advice (when he asks for it) is never brushed off. But what was nice was at the end he asked about me and how I am at the moment. We touched a little on some small things but I just let them go. I commented and then moved on. This is my 180 I've been working towards - biting my tongue. Because he isn't a talker I would kind of what for the right time but if he ever mentioned what it was I wanted to discuss I jumped on it like a panther and its prey. Not tonight, and our conversation went for a good hour and ended nicely. Progress....
2TH - I think my H wont say anything about changes - hes not a talker in that sense. So I'd be left guessing again if it went bad. But I'm remaining optimistic and always being fun!
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Never allow kindness be misinterpreted for weakness. Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself.
