T, She is shedding the mlc skin layer by layer. She's moving along nicely and I realize it may get old after a while...but I see lots of progress here, i.e., from both of you.
T, dig deeper for patience and continue to be your authentic self. I think you've done great the entire time w/being a very patient and compassionate man. Continue as you have been because whatever you are doing is working in many ways.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.