So what changes once (if) the D papers are signed? We will still be in the same house, at least for a bit. What do you do after signing?
My sister pointed out that, given my good relationship with still-MIL, I might be able to stay at her house as ex-SIL friend. That would certainly make working in California easier (I have clothes and stuff there).
Just had a good warm nap up in son's bed.
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.