Yes, Wonka, I am (co-) owner of the house, and earn 80% of the family income, though my W has done most of the extensive renovations.

I'll be sleeping upstairs tonight, and will take a (still jet-lagged) nap now up there. All the Christmas stuff is off son's bed.

I told my sister about this whole situation and she was very supportive. She also has closeness to the kids issues.

W asked if she could take the car, and I said of course, I don't need it. I hate it when she does that.

D15 is coming home extra late tonight, W earlier with the car.

I just hate the atmosphere and tension between W and I, and feel sorry that my d15 has to be in this.

Luke

M58, xW54
S22, D18
M 1984, D 2016
Living a new life.