"Sorry for the delayed response. ....was sick at home with a cold and I was away from work, but she's much better now. I have always loved ..... and still care very much about him. My feelings over the past few years have gradually changed and I have talked to ......on many occassions about how unhappy I am. I am not sure why I started feeling this way but I do know that ..... is not to blame. However, I am sure that us living apart and my feeling like a single parent definitely did not help the situation. I know that he is now willing to move anywhere I am just to be with me and ....., but I'm afraid that it may be too late. Our marriage has never been a traditional marriage. We've lived 8 years more as friends rather than husband and wife. It saddens me that .....feels that I've abandoned him during these difficult times, and that he has supported my career goals for 8 years only for me to walk away. I know that he only wants a chance to live together as a family but I believe that this will only be a recipe for disaster being that I am no longer emotionally invested in this relationship. I know that ..... is not taking this well. I am trying to be there for him the best way I know how"
