Where I am confused is that she is a WAW and the book says I should be doing the LRT.

When reading and identifying 180s I need to do, having a sausage making night with her family would cover a lot of the issues we have had in the past.

I just don't know if LRT is correct or not when I was basically shut down and ignoring her needs and wants for the past 5 months.

I know that asking about/planning the event would fall into pursuing which also violates LRT.

Just confused about my plan of attack when a 180 goes against LRT.


M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15