My GAL activity this weekend to take my mind off of Valentines day is going to be making sausage. It is something I really enjoy and have not done in over a year or better.

When I did this before I would always deliver sausages to my family and hers. I plan on doing this again as I will have 20 plus pounds of sausage.

I am wrestling with whether or not I should deliver some to the W. She knows I am going to make it sometime because she took the book with the recipe and had to take a picture of it for me.

Would this violate the "no buying gifts" as outlined in the LRT?

Normally we would make them and cook up a couple the same day and then make tasting notes. Cooking is something we both really enjoyed and have a passion for.

If I do give her some, it will not be on Valentine's day.

I do not want them to be seen as a bribe or pursuing, but I really want her to have some. Why? Because I still have feelings for her and I know she really likes them.

Don't know if this is a bad move or not.


M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15