Won't stop affair. Want divorce now.

[MrBond]

Fine.

But let me tell you something. SHE isn't pushing your buttons. YOU are. All she did was tell your family that you two were no longer together. It's just a matter of fact. Sure the timing stinks, but usually the WAS does something like that in light of a family tragedy to prevent any awkwardness in having to be together.

She hasn't done anything directly to you. YOU are accusing her of doing so.