Won't stop affair. Want divorce now.

[MrBond]

Calm down. Stop letting your anger get the best of you.

"the only message I got from her was "sorry about your sister"

What more did you want? She's afraid to give you any more attention with the fear that you might read too much into it.

Concentrate on YOUR family right now. I'm sorry to hear about your loss. God bless you and your family in this time of grief.