Please keep to one thread until you've reached 100 postings. When a poster has numerous threads on a forum, it makes it difficult for us to follow your situation as well as you will have difficulty monitoring your progress as the months go by.
As a friendly reminder, you can change the subject line within a thread so that people will notice a change in the subject matter.
Now, to answer your question. If the person is truly in mlc, they most likely will not ask if you miss them nor would they ask if you want them back. But, if asked if you miss them, be honest and say yes, but you understand that they have to do what they must in order to move forward. As for wanting them back...well, I would have to be honest that both of you would have had to do some work on yourselves and he/she would have to show you that they truly want to return and reconcile. That there is a lot of hard work to be done in order to have a successful reconciliation.
Others will come along and chime in. I will post the link to this thread on your thread of 40 postings.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
