Take time to think about this before you react to this terrible news. We all feel your pain. Remember its a marathon not a sprint. A very rough, emotionally challenging marathon and you will come out a much stronger individual, with or without your W. Stay strong!
I will take the time and wait a few days, and it is horrible news. How the heck am I suppose to act As If, and maintain a PMA when I know what the F is going on?
If you look back in my thread I kept saying no way there is OM, and maybe there wasn't before, but there sure as heck is now and he's 10 years younger. They have exchanged over 200 text/pic messages with the last 10 days.
Honestly Maritimer, I dont know if I can handle this marathon. I live with WAW and its going to take all that I have to not say anything when I know she's texting him and Im sitting right next to her. Or my boys are asking her something and shes to busy texting her BF to respond to them. WTF
You know what else bothers me? She appears to be concerned about be me and my well being, but at the same time looks for any reason to snap at me and turn things around to make me look like the bad guy. Maybe its manipulation! Maybe Im being a doormat! I feel like I have Zero control over anything. I originally agreed to sleep every other night on the blow up mattress, but now I want my room/bed back. Is that too much to ask? I mean she is the one who wants out, why to I have to suffer on the blow up mattress.
I know I haven't been in this very long, but I can truly see and feel that this woman wants out, and I dont think there is anything else I can do about it. I really dont know much anymore.
Me: 39 W: 33 M: 9 years T: 10 years S7 S10 BD 10/19/13 W Filed 11/25/13 EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA) WAW moved out 3/15/14
