I'm in, wife's out

[nit84]

AS,

Just a quick question about "opening the cage door."

If You(meaning me) have done this without trying to mind read, What does it mean when the WAW changes her tune and all of the sudden stays?

My W went ballistic the night I moved back. She said all kinds of things but mostly was "I can't live with you."

I told I understand her frustration but this moving back was for me and my moving forward. If she couldn't handle living with me I also understood that.

By no means though was I forcing or even asking her to leave. It has been two months

She is still living with me, we don't talk much, but her still being here I take as a blessing but have no expectations of R just because she didn't pack up and leave.

I know every WAW has there own reasons for doing things but it still confuses me when she says one thing but does another. Especially about something as important as living arrangements. I hope it doesn't turn into or already is a cake-eating type deal.

Sorry for hijacking your thread trc.

I too have felt the way you do but realized if I want to work on my M it is better, for me anyways, if W is still in the home IMHO.

For others in here that might not be the case.