I dunno True. I think you're speaking some truth there, but I'm not sure that fits with J. Having watched him for a while, I think that IS who he IS. I suspect he would do the same for a good friend or even a stranger because of no other reason than they needed the help. Maybe I'm putting my own self into the thread, but that's what I've seen.
The growth I've seen in J shows that he will do what he is going to do, with or without his W. His preference at this point is with her, but he'll do what he does regardless. Like seeing the L for example.
And J, I agree - find a good one. Don't be afraid to interview and walk away from them. Ask friends, ask for references, etc. It is important to get a good one and not one that just takes the case, ya know?
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
