Originally Posted By: Lost!
@mr bond.

Do you think I should still communicate with after telling me our marriage is over for now? She planned on starting fresh with OM.


MrBond didn't mean to communicate with her about the M. Communicate with her within the boundaries of Sandi2's 37 Rules. Keep all talk light and fluffy. Some call it the "friendly neighbor" approach, talk to your W like you would a neighbor you're on friendly terms with.

Originally Posted By: Lost!
I guess I push her to make that decision.


Whatever you push her to do will not go your way, so don't do it unless you're ready for D. And you are way too early in your sitch to know if you're ready for D.

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She said she's not in a rush to file but not willing to work on our marriage.


Great, she gave you the gift of time. Now what do you plan on doing with it?


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57