Don't mention anything about the OM. Keep the emphasis on your D. That's something the two of you share. Ask her what your D is doing and every now and then maybe pull up a shared memory of just the three of you. Something that you share with her and has no reference to the OM.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER