AnotherStander gave me great advice. He told me to think of the worst even if I don't have concrete evidence. If it is not a deal breaker let it go. Do not confront W if at all possible it only makes things worse for YOU.
I did this, I thought what would be the worst possible thing that could be happening with my W and OM if there is an EA/PA. It was extremely painful, I let myself feel this pain for 24/48 hrs.
I decided that I had nothing to do with what is going on and my W chose this I didn't force her to do it. I know I love my W and I want to work on the M if at all possible. I let it go!!
She is on a journey of her own and I/you must let that happen.
Great job Nit, and now here you are paying it forward! That's what these forums are all about
