I have to say this has been extremely therapeutic so far for me and I wish I would have found this place sooner. May have helped avoid a separation. Thank you all so far.

That being said, I'm going to the MC by myself tomorrow as I mentioned. As of right now, my wife doesn't know that I am going. Is that something I should at least let her know that I am going? I'm not really planning on telling her anything that I discuss in the meeting, but the MC has seen us both and I think getting her input on where she thinks we each are would be helpful. And she could give me some strong insight on what I can do to move forward with our without her. Basically, how to GAL while living in limbo. Because I think I'll be in limbo for a while.

Me: 33
W: 27
S: 5
D: 2
Bomb: 1/2/14
First Separation: 1/25/14
MC: 2/7/14 (one time only)
Moved Back in: 3/31/14
W says she wants a divorce and moves out: 7/26/14
Appt to sign dissolution: 12/30/14