25y Yes, I can see your point absolutely. I can honestly say I never held his A While we were separated against him. We talked about it as well as my OM to him. We did try to implement the tools we leaned in therapy and books we had. However over the years of my H starting a new career, 3 years of schooling, training and financial drain. We couldn't keep up on us. Then the many failed attempts to get a job in his field I believe sent my H over the edge.
But yes, I agree we needed much more help than that and Ow/om were not what we ever caught about. It was the above. Thank you.
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
