IAnother question I've seen posed on here - is an EA or a PA a deal breaker for you? If not, then it doesn't matter right now. Go take a break, do something you enjoy, and wait to revisit this for a while when you can look at it without the "in the moment" panic/anxiety you're experiencing.
Okay Im going to take a break, but this feeling I have is actually worse than BD. At this moment I feel it is a deal breaker. I have tried so hard to change and do 180's and be a better man and she is further and further along her path. She doesn't even seem to care as much about the boys as she use to. She barley spends any time with them. Its all about her.
Originally Posted By: FloydMan
If anything to say, wait several days so you are clearer and more relaxed. Do not tell her you snooped. Just detach. Act as if. She is on another path right now and you do not have a say in it. Look after you and your boy. You will feel proud of yourself that you are a great dad and look after what is important.
Floyd I can barley breath right now. I will wait a few days as everyone suggested, but Im strongly considering that Im going to ask her to leave. (she can go stay with her parents who live less than a mile from us) She's still on my case too and I have been nothing but pleasant to her.
Guys I really dont know If I can handle this. This is toooo much for me. This OM is a true dirt bag with a felony and a DUI a Marijuana charge within the last year. I bet WAW doesnt even know any of this. My WAW is "supposedly" a good Christian women and wants our boys to be raised according to scripture. She is currently the farthest thing from a Good Christian women.
I am hurting so bad. Im completely Numb!
Me: 39 W: 33 M: 9 years T: 10 years S7 S10 BD 10/19/13 W Filed 11/25/13 EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA) WAW moved out 3/15/14
