Blues. Once again that list is 99% my h as well. The big difference is that I don't sense the tears or sadness below the surface just anger. I wonder if that little % makes the difference between mlc or not.

I like your inventory of your self worth. I know this is hard but it sounds like you are doing really well.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15