Separated and on a Walk

[melissag]

Good for you, Paul. I think 25 had some great advice for you. I know sometimes it is hard when you see posts where you feel the person really misunderstands you - I have had a few of those. And sometimes they really do misunderstand, but most of the time, if you look at everything they said, you will find something in there that is helpful. And maybe something you feel defensive about because it's true. I haven't yet seen anyone post on my thread who was not trying to help. And it's good to be challenged - it spurs growth.

I know you said your M has been bad for a long while, and that is hard. Is there any reason that you need certainty right now about what will happen with your M?