Do me a favor and read a poster by the name of bradley11. You will need to do a search on his name and then read the post that were started by him (probably 10 or so).
bradley11 was a doctor (Brain surgeon to be exact). He is a great guy but came across a lot like YOU. He spent a lot of time apart from his W...going to school, residency, etc.
His W had an afair....and he was pissed. He felt betrayed and used. He felt "entitled".
I connected with bradley11 off board. I can tell you this....
He finally "got it"...
he reconciled with his W but that did not make him a success. Nope. He changed. He become a better man! That IMO, is why he a success story.
He is doing very well.
Their is hope brother...IF you do the work on YOU.
Go read his thread..see if you can see some of the things we are pointing out to you.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
