She returned from London tonight - on the phone to OM as she walked in the house.
The kids had waited up as late as they could to see her and she had decided to stop off at a friends for 4 hours on the way home and missed them. They obviously aren't the main thing in her life anymore.
We tried to speak and it blew up - she hates me, never loved me, wants me gone now. She threw wedding and engagement rings at me. Tried to discuss if we do split how we would manage the kids/childcare. Basically unless I bend to her every wish I won't be seeing my children.
I was being as nice as I could be - not arguing, validating like hell - and she was being as nasty as she could be.
She told me his morning that she was spending all her time with the EA OM. She has strong feelings for him and won't keep it purely professional. Luckily he seems to have some morals and won't act on his desires with a married woman as his father destroyed his family cheating.
I got that info from Facebook, as she had been telling her best friend all the details and said this.
Really struggling now. I've begged and pleaded, chased and moralized.
What do I do from here?? Can I do it for under the same roof?
I cried in front of my son
Me 41, W 39 Married 5 years Together 10 years S4, D2
