Limbo is the new normal

[NeedingMore]

HI Slow...I hope you can still check in to see that I have seen you latest updates and I wanted to remind you of something. One, I hope you are not feeling too bad about the "red flags" that you had. You were DBing and in doing so...people have to suck it up to try to make their relationship work. Even those who outright know there is another person involved. You being here, working through your feelings, and being proactive about getting support only shows that you are smart and that you know what to do to keep yourself stable for your children. You are a wonderful mom!! Two...I surely looked to your sitch for hope and inspiration, but that was about YOU and your strength in a tough situation. Not about the outcome. For me personally, I still admire your strength and your ability to do everything it takes to make your situation right. I know there are many more details to things than we can even post on the boards so I am glad to see that you are in a position where you are ready to take on the next phase of your situation and that you are doing it with the confidence that you have gained from making the right choices for your family. Getting your priorities straight is the same as living congruently with your faith in God. You are right that he is getting you through. And not only will you be rewarded for making loving choices, but you will be able to see miracles happen each day. Keep your eye out for them and KEEP IN TOUCH!