one final note for today then I'm going to bed. 25 again thanks for looking in and taking the time you did. I was in a "strange place" earlier and perhaps let some of the things get under my skin.

But, my W has been contacting me tonight for some reason....I have stepped back to take a breath and I feel better. you were right. Distance in fact is good for each of us sometimes. I was getting enmeshed again. More so in the past few days. My upcoming trip with my kids will provide a good GAL situation with lots of friends. Good night all.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14