I think she's going through a MLC. She uses terms from the 80's. She adopted a new personality that combines everything that bothered her about mine. She curses alot. She's yelling and screaming at my son. She never used to drink, now she buys beer for the house. I don't drink. She goes out with her friends who are 20 and 30 somethings. She calls me DUDE which I HATE! It's so impersonal. When we're home together she stays in the bedroom and doesn't come out.

Yesterday I went to ask her something in the bedroom and when I opened the door I found her on the bed on her knees acting out some kind of fantasy in very sexy underwear she bought herself. Grinding and caressing her body while singing some sexy songs and looking in the mirror. The music was so loud she didn't even notice me. I closed the door to not interrupt her but all I felt was sadness. This woman was making herself feel sexy when it should have been my job as a husband to help her feel that way as much as possible. I failed. frown This is an upstanding Christian woman who, when we were together I thought, would in no way take part in the behaviors i'm witnessing now.

"Who are you and what have you done with my wife?"


Me 43 W 43
S 10 (Special Needs)
M: 14 yrs
T: 18 yrs
Bomb: 09/16/12
Filed for D: WHO KNOWS???