How would a letter validating her feelings go against Sandi's Rules?
Would the letter be pursuing?
She is a WAS so is it better to not validate that she hurts?
I may be mixing advice from the multiple books I have read.
I got some advise thst might help you "scratch the itch" without actuallu sending snything. Buy a card or write a letter...then burn it. Dont send it.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
