MLC or not - know your rights, protect yourself II

[AJM]

Wrong? I hear the frustration and anger at the situation, but wrong? I submit it is what it is. The question then becomes- how to deal with it in the best way for GM and her family?

These things can go on for a long time, GM. Try not to get caught up in the right or wrong thinking. It isn't what you wanted nor expected. Ok. Now what to do about it?

Peace,
AJ

[wishing, hoping]

Oh man. Why do you have to go back? Most judges want to get it done already. Why is this one prolonging it? What does your attorney say?

That's just the thing. You just never know what these judges are going to do or say.

WH

[golf mom]

Xh has to produce documents including the loan documents for his car, house and a paper trail for the down payment. There are others as well.

I really am trying to be happy and focus on the good things in my life, but today was definitely a setback. I guess I'm incredibly naive. I just expect the right thing to be done in a courtroom of all places.

[wishing, hoping]

Well yeah, I get that. You think the judge is going to see right through their crapola and then they get sucked right in. I'm so sorry but I know what you're going through.

You know when I got kicked out of my own house by that judge back in December I thought it would not happen because it was not right and it was not fair. I had no money and no where to go. H says he wants the house Aja can afford it so he gets to stay, case closed. Now I am glad I am out of that house. And now H is in a more fretful predicament than ever.

I guess what I am saying is you just don't know what the future will hold. It looks bleak now and you are disappointed but try to keep your head up.'this may end up spinning in your direction yet.

Is your lawyer upset?

WH

[golf mom]

I can't stop crying. I have worked so hard to get where I am. I have sacrificed greatly and for what? What does any of it matter? Xh is going to make a lot of money due to my effort. He can go out an close a fraudulent loan, likely using community funds and I'm the one who has to pay. My faith is shattered.

[beatrice]

GM, I am so sorry - I agree that it is wrong. Devious and manipulative people can use the courts to their advantage, and do.

This isn't right, just or fair. I hope that you begin to feel better, and are able to consider your options.

Hugs,

[job]

GM,
I'm very sorry to hear what transpired yesterday, but we have to hold out for hope that when you go back next month, maybe, just maybe, something good will come out of that meeting for you.

Please try to stay positive...we don't know what next month will bring...but I am keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

[ericmsant2]

GM

It is not over yet. I mentioned that the you would need to go back to court next month. Right? If this is indeed the case, then please do yourself a favor and stop telling yourself that you are going to lose. Cry if you must – let out the pain, frustration and anger and then pick yourself back up and start figuring out what you need to do to remain in your home.

Yes it [censored] and maybe it will suck for some period of time. That period though is not and will not be FOREVER.

Stay positive.

A quick story…on another board that I am a member off, the XH was a mean bast*rd. Really mean. He left his XW and son in a pretty crappy sitch. Purchased a home with OW, stop seeing his kid. Then…….one day…..not long after they divorced…. He dropped dead. Now, I am not suggesting that your XH drops dead or that you will him ill will. What I am saying is that no one knows what the future holds for us. So maybe your sitch [censored] for a bit…….. but only God knows what tomorrow holds.


Oh…btw, the XW was on XH insurance policy, she and her son ended up with everything. The OW was forced to leave the house. I can tell you that she never expected it…..

Never….

Karma…..has a way of righting wrongs.

[kml]

Oh…btw, the XW was on XH insurance policy, she and her son ended up with everything. The OW was forced to leave the house. I can tell you that she never expected it…..

I love this!!!!!!!

[wishing, hoping]

Oh…btw, the XW was on XH insurance policy, she and her son ended up with everything. The OW was forced to leave the house. I can tell you that she never expected it…..

I love this!!!!!!!

ME TOO!!!!!!!!!