work is good; H is crazy

[Whiterose]

Thank you Eric.....I'm working on not being angry at him.....it's very hard.

HELP

Got a note back from my L, H's L sent it to her, saying I would get payment on Friday. Look, I get a valentines gift. Lol. What a crap load of money when all he had to do was tell me when I messaged him last week that he would pay Friday.

Anyway, I sent an email,cc'd my L, that I need online access to the joint account. No response. This am I messaged him

Hi H can you please send me the joint acct login info?

H: do you not have access to this account? I don't want to lose access to this account until the house and mortgage are dealt with I have already gave you all he info for iTunes and you changed everything so I cannot access any of the music I purchased which the majority of it I did

Me: I do not have access to the account. Please forward me the login info to the joint account

H: I'm sorry WR I'm not giving you my ow in the joint account to have you change everything on me

Me: I can understand your reluctance, h, but I'm legally entitled to online access to that account. I will need to go through L, which will cost more money, to get me the access I'm asking for via text.....to save money please forward me the access. I will not change the pass word until it's settled

H: and please do not quote what I owe on a court order again. (I think he's referring to my email from last Friday where i state it's a court ordered payment) you are the one who has done a play on words and stopped everything all of this would have been dealt with if you followed the court order (I'm not sure what he's reffering to here......maybe he thinks the judge gave me a time frame to get him his money??). .....then. I got
We also need to sort out a schedule with the kids. I know they are both over 12 and decide where they want to live but that's not what I'm asking about. I want to be able to have them on weekends......then I got
I would also prefer not have lawyers involved neither one of us can afford it...then I got
Can I ask why you need the Info?

Me: I would like to be able to access other account on line now. I will talk to the boys about their thoughts on a schedule

H: I did speak with S14 and he says you have him pretty busy so it's hard to meet up.....then I got
Just two weeks later not behind (no idea....is he talking about me getting the payment??)

I talked to s19 and he said he's busy working and happy seeing H for a few hours at a time like it is now. I'm guessing that since s14 lied, I do not keep him busy to the point where he couldn't spend time with H, he's not interested in seeing his dad.......through me under the bus. Lol. How do I respond to the kids. Do I ignore the comments about me delaying?? I still don't have the login info.....