all of the above.How can my H do all of these things yet be another nationallity and live in another country.. What is the common denominator...
How are these WH so much alike...is turning into a liar a chemical reaction or hormones? or is it depression.? Maybe not much consolation that they are so alike. My H had been so disparaging about an acquaintance that had an affair. I asked him how are you different from J.. He thought and said... J kept it a secret for while... really... that makes a difference some hiw he is not a slimeball because he found it too difficult to live with the guilt!
An out of touch with reality story. He told me he was seeing someone else, the marriage was over. I asked did he plan to date other women as well as the OW? His answer " I am not like THAT" while looking me square in the eye with shock I could suggest such a thing.. I am starting to feel these WAS do not deserve the attentio s of the people here who care so much.
