Valentine's Day.... Uggggh... Now what?

[gogofo]

I am torn also about what to do. If we weren't S it would be easier, but this will be awkward this year. She even said she did not want to do Valentine's day or her B-day on the 25th.

I am probably going to write her a letter to her showing my support for her. At this point I think the separation can be a great growing experience for us.

The letter won't be pushy and my intent is not going to be the R, just validating her hurt, emotions, and letting her know she still has support from me.

I hope changing the delivery method for my message helps.

I know is the past that hand made gifts worked well for me. I made dance coupons because she loved to dance and I was not that good. I also did things that were just for her. Manicures, massages, etc.

Don't know your whole sitch or how your normal gifting was in the relationship, but roses and a card might feel like a bribe.