Don't know if im on the edge anymore or not....

[dingo]

Thanks for the encouragement guys. I think I am most happy with her recognition that she needs to fix some things within herself. I believe whatever happens after that will be for the best (if we ultimately reconcile or not).

As long as I see some relative consistency of action from her (with respect to the A and continuing to work on herself), I don't think I will have a problem being patient.