Oh boy OneDay, I can remember being where you are a year ago, Looking after the kids while she was out house shopping. It hurt like crazy. She could care less about your feelings and the more you expect her to understand your point of view the more hurt and disappointed you will feel.
As the rest of the posters suggested just ignore it and let her do her thing. There is nothing you can say that will change her mind. Her leaving or staying is something she is going to have to figure out for herself. This journey may be long my friend.
Myself I couldn't believe the choices my W was making, none of it made any sense to me, financially or family wise.
It will be the most challenging time in your life right now, Just be patient, pleasant and look out for you and your kids. The rest will all fall into place.
H 37 WAW 32 S 4 (Autistic) S 2 Together 11 years Married 6 Bombshell Dec 1 2012 House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.
