MLC and Covert Depression at 62?

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I don't mean to depress you. But I'm sure KML and my post were upsetting. I'm trying to clarify things for you, not make them worse.

I say "run from him" partly b/c you are not married. Not that he doesn't matter. Not that the r does not matter. But since he's not her dad, the R was fairly short--3 years-- and he's such a jerk about no contact, and he HAS a history of dishonesty (as it turns out), that cumulatively, I don't see him drastically changing anytime soon, if ever. So...Where does that leave you?

That^^ is how I'd sum up your situation atm.

Is your job going well enough? Can you make it on your salary now?

I am glad to hear you are near your d's school. I have 2 d's and the single thing they MOST wanted to know in the middle of our marital crisis, was IF we were going to have to move.

When I said "No more OR if we have one, it'll be close by", they were visibly relieved.

My MC/IC said to stress to kids what will NOT CHANGE in Their lives with a split.

I think having the Same school, same friends, same areas as before, is pretty darn good. If the only thing missing or changed, is WAP absence, That would be very good.

Meanwhile you'll know you did your best in a lousy situation. Is there any legal recourse you can have there? Have you seen a solicitor or barrister there?

It would be worth a call at least.

Keep on keeping on. I know this hurts but the faster you get thru this and to the other side, the better for you both. But the only way thru this is THROUGH it. You have to process a lot of conflicting events/words.

Sorry you are here but it's a great place to be, for a lousy reason.