[Maritimer]

14 months in…What now?

Keep on doing what im currently doing. Is it working on getting my W back? Who knows but if it wasn’t for these DB’ing principles I guarantee I would be much worse off than where I am now. I have grown so much over the past 14 months all for the better.

Goals achieved so far:

Took swimming lessons & learnt how to swim.
Lost 60 pounds.
No alcohol or pot.
Developed the patients of a saint.
Become a more engaging father.
Saved a 10% down payment for a home this spring.
Ran a 5K.
Call & visit my mom more.
Became a spouse only a fool would leave..

Things I need to work on.

Forgiving myself for not making these changes earlier.
Accepting my contribution in the failure of the marriage.
Let go of the deep down disappointment of her not wanting help save this marriage.
Not giving up on becoming a part time single father.
Drop another 20 pounds. (These BMI charts are ridiculous!)
Become more social.
Give back to all that helped me in my journey.
Congratulate myself for goals achieved so far.
Became easier on myself, I am my own worst enemy sometimes.
Did I mention forgiving myself…