Thanks Job, I will read it.
As far as weekends we don't have set timea. My H tries to take extra shifts on the weekend so we just go with it. They are almost 14 so they do a lot on their own.
When we do things as a "family" it is usually fine and H wants to get along.
I just don't want him to have his cake!
It's about our kids I know they would like it but I need to make a change that he will feel??


M15 T19
D13 S13
BD Affair 9/13
S 11/13
D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together.
Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.