Thanks Job, I will read it. As far as weekends we don't have set timea. My H tries to take extra shifts on the weekend so we just go with it. They are almost 14 so they do a lot on their own. When we do things as a "family" it is usually fine and H wants to get along. I just don't want him to have his cake! It's about our kids I know they would like it but I need to make a change that he will feel??
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.