It is not over yet. I mentioned that the you would need to go back to court next month. Right? If this is indeed the case, then please do yourself a favor and stop telling yourself that you are going to lose. Cry if you must – let out the pain, frustration and anger and then pick yourself back up and start figuring out what you need to do to remain in your home.
Yes it [censored] and maybe it will suck for some period of time. That period though is not and will not be FOREVER.
Stay positive.
A quick story…on another board that I am a member off, the XH was a mean bast*rd. Really mean. He left his XW and son in a pretty crappy sitch. Purchased a home with OW, stop seeing his kid. Then…….one day…..not long after they divorced…. He dropped dead. Now, I am not suggesting that your XH drops dead or that you will him ill will. What I am saying is that no one knows what the future holds for us. So maybe your sitch [censored] for a bit…….. but only God knows what tomorrow holds.
Oh…btw, the XW was on XH insurance policy, she and her son ended up with everything. The OW was forced to leave the house. I can tell you that she never expected it…..
Never….
Karma…..has a way of righting wrongs.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
