One more thing I just thought of. My S13 has a game out of town an hour away. If my H suggests we all go together. Do I ask him to take his own car? This is for future times Since well. The problem I have with him is he'll want to start doing things with the kids together. I don't want make it easy to do that not be married to me. H left me so he should fell the pain of being left out or going by himself to something. Am I wrong?
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.