Thanks for the 37 rules. I have indeed read those. I can honestly say I am applying all except 8 & 9 with recommendation from therapist.
We have had a scheduled "date night" for a while now (every Friday) and my wife actually enjoys these with me; half the time she initiates the plans. And I have said no before if I don't feel like it so I always have that option. As far as gifts; I have never missed a birthday, anniversary or holiday. What I will do is keep it very simple and make sure I don't sign the card with "LOVE" or "I LOVE YOU". That should keep the pressure off.
Therapist said to go ahead and keep these in place but definitely agreed with all others so I'll follow her lead for now. I finished DR; gonna give it a couple days to soak in and then read it again.
Me: 44 X WAW/MLC: 42 Kids: S21, D11 BD: July 2013 (ILYBNILWY) EAx2: Busted 1 OCT 2013; 25 Mar 2014 Status: Divorcing & Done! Waiting to be final (Nov 2014?) & glad it's finally over!
