My H and I never got into 2/14, either. But why does it have to be mushy? Maybe just get some snacks and play board games or something?
(I'm also a huge fan of making cards, not buying them- maybe make her one like you would have made back in 3rd grade---that adds some humor and keeps things light while still letting the person know you acknowledged them on 2/14).
Just a thought!
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5