Sounds like you have a good IC who is obviously Gottman based and solution oriented therapist.
Have you read the Five Love Languages book by Gary Chapman yet? It works well along side with Divorce Remedy. I think your W's LL is Quality Time (QT). You're doing good...keep it up!
Wonka,
Thanks for the response. Yes, I do have 5LL and have read it 2-3 times. QT & AoS seems to be her main LL's; these are the two areas I get the most requests equally. I believe GG is also at least a secondary because she loves to give gifts to friends and buys me stuff from time to time just because.
Azagtoth
Me: 44 X WAW/MLC: 42 Kids: S21, D11 BD: July 2013 (ILYBNILWY) EAx2: Busted 1 OCT 2013; 25 Mar 2014 Status: Divorcing & Done! Waiting to be final (Nov 2014?) & glad it's finally over!