Valentine's Day.... Uggggh... Now what?

[RealityTrip]

I am deviating from my trippy, life thread to address Valentine's Day this Friday. We are all in different places and I have to say, for me... last year was easier! My then WAW had left me for a "clear her head" separation (code for: date my AP without interruption) 2 weeks prior and I was picked up off the floor by a loving friend who took me to church to volunteer for a Valentine's Dinner mentally disabled adults. It was amazing.

Well this year, the W has been home, as some of you know, since October... and (queue the dramatic music) I have NO idea how to address the sappy, mushy, WORST day of the year, post-affair.

Part of me wants to sit back and let her take the lead, after all... she cheated. Woo me dang it! I deserve it. But then, it's a marriage, so what if I go all V-Day roses and card on her is it too pursuing and too soon.

Seriously. Somebody call Cupid and cancel Friday. I'm going to hide in the bushes as throw eggs at the pushy, little cherub when he flies by.