"As much as things suck between my wife and I at the moment" - Do they really suck? I would think about this statement B.....Sounds almost like old B might be sneaking out of the woods.
Parents - I hate to say this B....but you may need to start DB'ing the parents LOL. I like that you are bringing the babysitter in regardless of the parents being there. The faster they move on, the faster your actions match what your wife asked you. You two need the room....and while your parents are there.....the room to grow will be very limited.
Letting her own her feelings B......You are doing good. Remember that you are there for her, but you are not going to fix her issues. She needs to deal with them herself.
