Originally Posted By: bluesgal
Said he is miserable. I told him moving out is something he's wanted to do and I asked him if it made him happy. He said he's miserable now but no more miserable than when he lived at home. He said there are no answers.



...how you can begin to believe the rewritten history.

I am now finally accepting the gravity of the demise of my M and relationship with H. I have let go of the rope.

The kids and I have GAL like crazy. Having lots of fun. I'm trying to enjoy every moment.

Question: Does anyone else have a WAS or MLCer that drives around a lot? My H puts some serious miles on our vehicles driving aimlessly around on random roads and through random towns. He will do this for hours sometimes. What does it mean?


Hi Blue. Great post. yes my W now has a long commute to her parents with lots of drive time. Seems to work for her. i'm sure its time to think. One morning we talked aobut seeing the sunrise. We seem to be watching each morning together, but apart


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14