Been here. Done that. Completely devastated and broken after BD 5/2012. IC sessions and followed DB principles to the letter and was successful after eight grueling months of hell. H ended A w/OW But, 8 months of feeling like I was an option and not a priority made me question H's sincerity and I begin to do more than GAL. I began to withdraw further away from H. Our M was no longer a priority for me either. I found me again. No worries of OW, lies or betrayal. I do not Trust him anymore. Here are some red flags...He continues to lie about simple things. Stays on the Zello chat line late at night. Sometimes at late as 3-4am. Says he's only listening and chatting but this behavior bothers me. He knows it but still obsesses. Lacks urgency to contribute financially to the household.I'm having major trust issues and about to drop the paton and walk away.
