Hey DX, He is cake eating. His perfect world would be to have what he is having and have you and his outlet. Maybe he just wants it as amicable as possible but don't worry about what he wants. Do detach, as hard as it is. Move on for now, better that than the mess I am in. He is not right. Selfishness holds no bounds and to string you along is not right. You are a good person. He is selfish. The more he gets, the more he will want. Sense of entitlement is sick. Especially involving the children right now. Detach. It will hurt in the short term, but in the long run you will be better. Days will be up and down. Strong days and weak days. That is very typical. The better and stronger days get more feequent.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.