Spouses do come back often. Marriages do heal from infidelity. It isn't easy. I don't think marriage in general is for the faint of heart and especially when a spouse has been unfaithful.
It's really important to know what you want. And put all of the action that has taken on a life of its own on hold, til you know what you want. You don't have to give everyone the details, you can be vague until you center yourself. See what you want. Then get advice in the appropriate way to obtain the life you want.
It's worth it. You get one go around.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
