At this stage, I agree with you, I would let her lead, that seems to be working atm. Maybe though look at that "fear" thingy described here:
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I don't want to screw that up by over stepping my boundaries.
I get that ^^^^, yup, spent lots of time there. So she seems to have boundaries, what about yours? Maybe you let her initiate because you are busy taking care of YOU? Maybe re-frame some of this mentally.
I am the one that asked how long you thought you could wait, how long to you could do this. I was trying get a bit more about who YOU are, what you are about, etc. I said I would do this a year...and it's been 2.5 since BD, 5-ish all together. So much for stated deadlines... I didnt want you to put an expiration date on it, since sometimes we surprise the heck out of ourselves once we get doing the work.
Just trying to learn about this newyork dude, what and who he is.
One day at a time, let her lead, YOU figure out and work on YOU is what I would do atm.
And see how the re-frame that fear thingy.
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
